September 2025
My Living Xperiment: Day 271
FSP Weekly Update… Sunflowers… Pumpkins…. https://t.co/2QvgGmc8lJ
— Carla Gericke, Live Free And Thrive! (@CarlaGericke) September 29, 2025
| Porcupine —Pumpkins are ripening. Sunflowers are blooming.The mountains are ablaze in reds, oranges, and all varieties of fall foliage as the leaves change their colors. The sights and smells of autumn in the Free State are upon us — and I hope you are enjoying them. |
| There are many events ahead for active Free Staters and those visiting the state.I am most looking forward to Free State Fall Fest over Columbus Day weekend — including many family-friendly events and the Free State Bitcoin Digital Asset Conference. |
| A variety of family-friendly events are being organized across New Hampshire for the long weekend — apple picking, axe throwing, a family hike, an arcade day, and a family movie night.Additionally, that Sunday, Bruce and Carolann Fenton are hosting the Free State Bitcoin Digital Asset Conference — and all who want to discuss and learn are welcome.CLICK HERE to learn more about all our event offerings for Fall Fest weekend! |
| Also, for all our political activists in the Free State movement, we have just announced an upcoming event just for you.The FSP is hosting the Foundation for Applied Conservative Leadership for a one-day political leadership school on November 8 in Concord, NH.FSP Director Eric Brakey says these are the teachings he applied to pass Constitutional Carry in Maine ten years ago — and he wants all Free State activists to have access to the same skills.CLICK HERE to learn more and register for the Free State Political Leadership Workshop. |
| Our Free State communities are hosting many opportunities for connection and community!First Fruits Ministries Bardo Potluck & Upper Valley New Mover Party Bowling Night Social Sunday (Just to name a few.)The NH Liberty Calendar is packed with events. I hope you check them out — and read more about many of these events at the bottom of this email. |
| I hope you continue reading to see what’s taking place in your area of New Hampshire.If you enjoy these emails or have feedback to share, I’d love to hear from you — reply and let me know your thoughts! For Liberty! Chris Lopez |
| Upcoming Events!Monday, Sept 29thLancaster, 8am-10:30 – North Country AP Language Course for Homeschoolers – AP Language and Composition teaches rhetorical analysis, helping students identify the elements of rhetoric in literature, speeches, media, and other texts, and understand the tools of persuasion used in the world around them. Students will also learn to apply these tools to craft their own persuasive arguments. Free for The ‘Pine members ($5 donation for non-members). Hosted by Staci Webb. (the Pine, 70 Main St, Lancaster) Strafford, 6pm-9 – Car Inspections & Cannabis (Liberty Legislated) – At “Liberty Legislated” (fourth Mondays of the month), we review the past and future of legislation, looking at the mechanics of returning liberty to New Hampshire. This month’s guest speaker will be Tom Mannion. (Independence Inn, 6 Drake Hl Rd, Strafford) Lancaster, 6pm-8 – North Country Book Club – What have you been reading this month? Bring the book you’re currently reading or finished recently to discuss. Everyone will have a few minutes to talk about their book. Free for The ‘Pine members ($5 donation for non-members). Hosted by Amy Norris. (the Pine, 70 Main St, Lancaster)Tuesday, Sept 30thManchester, 4pm-8 – Taproom Tuesday at Murphy’s – Come meet fellow liberty lovers at our weekly event! $5 beer and $4 well drinks & $10 appetizers all night! Please invite others! 8-40 people, avg 20. Hosted by Bill & Gail. (Murphy’s Taproom, 494 Elm St, Manchester) Manchester, 7:40pm-9:10 – First Fruits Ministries – Monthly on the last Tuesday. Please join us to learn more about the Scriptural, historical, cultural, contextual, and practical applications of the faith for living in the 21st Century. Hosted by Andrew Manuse. (First Fruits Ministries, 60 Bailey Ave, Manchester)Wednesday, Oct 1stLancaster, 8:30am-10:30 – North Country AP US History Course for Homeschoolers – AP United States History is a full survey course designed to help students think critically about history, engage with primary sources, and develop strong historical arguments. Free for The ‘Pine members ($5 donation for non-members). Taught by Staci Webb. (the Pine, 70 Main St, Lancaster) Concord, 10am-3pm – Drop-in Co Work – Come co-work (for free) in an office suite in Downtown Concord. Work on a liberty project, a new business or old business – sometimes it’s helpful to get out of the home, into a professional & supportive environment, and get things done! Hosted by Pedro 603-410-9213, PM for address YouTube 7pm-8 – FSP Porcupine Report – Free State Project Executive Director Eric Brakey sits down every week to interview the movers and shakers of New Hampshire. Join us on YouTube! Hosted by Eric Brakey.Thursday, Oct 2ndSeabrook, 8am-9 – Weekly Patriot Breakfast – A weekly social meeting of NH Patriots, think traditional Constitutional Republican. Hosted by Jude. (Linda’s Breakfast & Lunch Place, 920 Lafayette Road, Seabrook) Dover, 6pm-9 – Dover Liberty Outreach Meetup – Are you tired of big government? Just want to live free? You’ll be in good company at our weekly liberty meetups every Thursday night. The goal of these meetups is to provide a place for those interested in the philosophy of liberty to learn more and get involved in our vibrant community of families, entrepreneurs, and activists. Hosted by Sarah Scott. (Thirsty Moose Tap House, 83 Washington St, Dover) Concord, 6pm-8 – Bowling Night – Bring your friends and family and let’s see who can score a strike (or at least knock down a few pins ). Hosted by Pedro. (Boutwell’s Bowling Center, 152 N State St, Concord)Friday, Oct 3rdManchester, 7pm-10 – New Mover Potluck – All liberty lovers are invited to join us in welcoming the newest movers of the great liberty migration! Even if you have been here for a while and this is your first opportunity to join the community, come on down! We want to welcome you home as a new mover. New movers eat free! (the Quill, 131 Amory St, Manchester)Saturday, Oct 4thLancaster, 10am-1pm – the ‘Pine Market Day – Bring a table and sell your wares the First Saturday each month! During the summer, this is the same time as the Lancaster Farmer’s Market, so may attract some local foot traffic. Table space is free for the ‘Pine members; $10 for non-members. Hosted by Amy Norris. (the ‘Pine Clubhouse – 70 Main St, 2nd floor, Lancaster)Manchester, 11:30am-1pm – Merrimack Valley Porcupines – Every first Saturday folks who are passionate about liberty gather for MVP, the Merrimack Valley. Hosted by Jeremy Olson. (the Quill, 131 Amory St, Manchester) Lancaster, 4pm-7 – Free State Acoustics Performance – Gather at The ‘Pine for a full three-set show closing out the summer season with the peak leaf colors. Free State Acoustics is a four piece band playing a wide variety of interesting songs from the 1950s through today in their own acoustic-focused style developed out of PorcFest fireside jams and public performances for music lovers. Free for The ‘Pine members ($5 donation for non-members). Hosted by Amy Norris. (the ‘Pine Clubhouse – 70 Main St, 2nd floor, Lancaster) Croydon, 5pm-9 – Bardo Potluck & Upper Valley New Mover Party – Join the Bardo crew, friends and neighbors for an evening of socializing and good food. Potluck dinner is at 5pm, please bring a dish to share. Hosted by Emily Smith. (Bardo Farm, 92 Forehand Rd, Croydon) Sunday, Oct 5thCandia, 1:15pm-3:15 – Gruck: Granite Ruck – Rucking is the act of walking with weight on your back. It’s a low impact exercise based on military training workouts that improves cardio, strength, endurance, and character. This is a challenge by choice event, go as heavy or as far as you’re enthusiastic about. Whether you come for camaraderie or to test your mettle, as long as you come in peace, you’re welcome! Hosted by Michael Rohan. (Garnet School, 456 Critchett Rd, Candia) Manchester, 5pm-7:30 – Manchester Crypto Meetup – We’re not trying to shill any coin, token, or project. We are a group of individuals and businesses in support of cryptocurrency and its everyday uses. Hosted by Matt Ping. (Strange Brew Tavern, 88 Market St, Manchester) Keene, 5pm-6 – Social Sunday – Enjoy the company of other liberty-loving people at NH’s longest-running activist social! Hosted by Chris Wade. (Local Burger, 82 Main St, Keene) Nashua, 6pm-8 – Nashua Liberty Social – Weekly Nashua Meet-Up – Location varies each week. This calendar event is typically updated by 2PM on Sunday. Meet-ups are generally within about a 10 minute drive of the downtown area. Hosted by Jeff Creem.Remember that this is only a partial list.For all FSP events and more details on those highlighted here, be sure to check out the NH Liberty Calendar.Check the NH Liberty Calendar |
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My Life in Balance series… Prioritizing myself for an hour and making art on the back porch… How is your Sunday going? https://t.co/nhFVvlwfHS
— Carla Gericke, Live Free And Thrive! (@CarlaGericke) September 28, 2025
Observation: One of the strangest joys of doing these for 270 days now is the revelations in the “What the flub?!” moments—the places where the mind slips, stumbles, and something sparks. This morning, because it’s Sunday, I accidentally called my My Life in Balance series my “Series of Self.”
For a second, I caught myself—How vain, always thinking of yourself!—and then realized that voice wasn’t mine at all. It was auto-generated by the haters, the baiters, the master-(de)baters. Well, screw that. They don’t get a loop in my head. I know what I know: the quest is to keep myself in balance. If only they’d listen, they might even learn a thing or two.
Here’s something more revealing: since the local toxic bros started calling me “crazy,” “insane,” “schizophrenic,” etc., I’ve become hyper-aware of how often I casually call myself “crazy.” That habit was formed early, when as an exceptional young woman, I realized I needed a defense mechanism—a pre-emptive shield, a wink-and-nod to disarm petty, fragile men. The same kind of men who historically have used the word like a cudgel because they cannot believe a self-actualized woman might decline to eat their shit, professionally or personally.
I’ve been holding back from embracing “My Crazy” because I didn’t want to give them “ammunition.” But today, mid-sentence, it clicked: I don’t need to be afraid of that word. One, I’m not crazy. Two, I’m not going to let these clowns strip away an integral part of me—the part that understands we’re all a little crazy, and that’s exactly what makes each of us us.
I don’t care what they think of me, because I surrender to the truth: I cannot control their behavior. I cannot control what they think or say. I cannot control them. They refuse my guidance and teachings. The only thing I can control is me. And I choose to keep them out of my consciousness.
I am free. Free to be me—wild, wise, whole.
This situation in the libertarian nonprofit highlights classic tensions between individual agency, group cohesion, and ideological purity tests. The organization’s “big tent” approach—rooted in core libertarian principles like individualism, self-ownership/property rights, and the non-aggression principle (NAP)—aims for inclusivity, allowing diverse views as long as they align with those fundamentals. However, the disruptive individual’s actions introduce factionalism by injecting culture war elements (e.g., anti-LGBTQ slurs, misogyny, pronatalist judgments), which aren’t inherent to libertarianism but are used to carve out a “right-wing faction.” This shifts the dynamic from collaborative power-sharing to a zero-sum struggle for control.
I’ll break this down into the key power dynamics at play, drawing on concepts like power (inherent influence and agency) versus control (regulatory dominance and manipulation). Then, I’ll outline practical steps to resolve the factionalism, emphasizing libertarian values to restore unity without compromising principles.
Key Power Dynamics
The disruptive person (let’s call them “the faction leader” for clarity) is attempting to consolidate control through aggressive, exclusionary tactics, while the board responds with institutional power to maintain the organization’s integrity. This creates a cycle of escalation, where transparency issues exacerbate distrust. Here’s a breakdown:
| Dynamic | Description | How It Manifests Here | Implications |
|---|---|---|---|
| Assertion of Dominance via Othering | Power is claimed by creating in-groups/out-groups, often through bullying or identity-based attacks, to elevate one’s status in hierarchical or competitive environments. This stems from insecurity or a need for validation, masking as “leadership.” | The faction leader declares a “right-wing faction,” uses slurs (e.g., “faggots” for gay members, “degenerates” for childless people), denies women’s rights (e.g., voting, leadership respect), and engages in physical aggression or inappropriate propositions. This “othering” frames dissenters as enemies, positioning himself as the defender of “true” libertarianism infused with cultural conservatism. | Undermines the big tent by violating NAP (aggression, even verbal/physical, initiates force). It alienates members, erodes trust, and invites backlash, as bullying isn’t a sustainable leadership style—it’s manipulative and leads to long-term isolation or removal. In libertarian contexts, this hypocrisy ignores self-ownership by imposing personal moral judgments on others. |
| Control-Seeking vs. Authentic Power | Control is effortful and top-down, often fear-based, aiming to regulate behaviors/outcomes. True power is bottom-up, antifragile, and rooted in mutual respect/influence without coercion. | The faction leader seeks control by aggressively “leading” a faction, using intoxication/belligerence to intimidate (e.g., physical stepping up, public drunkenness). This is fragile, requiring constant enforcement. Conversely, the board wields institutional power (e.g., removal authority) but does so non-transparently, which feels like covert control rather than open governance. | Highlights a mismatch: The faction leader’s tactics reflect low emotional intelligence and compensatory dominance (e.g., disrespecting women in charge suggests underlying powerlessness). The board’s opacity risks perceptions of hypocrisy, as libertarians value transparency and voluntary association. This can deepen divides if seen as “cancel culture” by one side, while the other views it as rightful exclusion. |
| Factionalism as Ideological Hijacking | In ideological groups, one actor introduces divisive “purity tests” (e.g., culture wars) to gain leverage, fracturing the core mission. This often resembles agent provocateur behavior—intentionally provocative to sow discord, whether deliberate or not. | Leaning into culture wars (e.g., anti-women, anti-LGBTQ rhetoric) deviates from libertarian essentials, turning a unifying philosophy into a battleground. His self-declaration as faction leader amplifies this, potentially attracting like-minded extremists while repelling moderates. | Risks the organization’s antifragile nature; big tents thrive on decentralized power (e.g., voluntary participation). If unchecked, it leads to schisms, as seen in historical libertarian movements where cultural injections caused splits. Morally, it’s questionable—promotes exclusion over community building, potentially damaging the group’s reputation and mission. |
| Institutional Response and Backlash | Organizations use formal power (e.g., bylaws, votes) to enforce boundaries, but non-transparency can breed resentment, framing removals as “unlibertarian.” | The board’s strategic removal protects the group but lacks openness, possibly violating implicit norms of due process. This contrasts with the faction leader’s overt aggression, creating a “stealth vs. brute force” dynamic. | Invokes the right of association: Groups can exclude those who violate shared values, but hypocrisy arises if the process isn’t even-handed (e.g., criticizing “cancel culture” elsewhere while practicing it). It can escalate factionalism if supporters see it as authoritarian, leading to offshoots or ongoing attacks. |
| Gender and Interpersonal Imbalances | Power imbalances often intersect with gender, where “masculine” aggression (e.g., binary dominance) overrides “feminine” elements like intuition or collaboration, risking group harmony. | Physical aggression toward women, propositions to married women, and anti-women statements reflect a bias against female agency, clashing with self-ownership. This isn’t libertarian but a control tactic to assert superiority. | Alienates diverse members, weakening the big tent. In nonprofits, it undermines cohesion, as effective leadership requires emotional intelligence and respect, not intimidation. |
Overall, the power here is uneven: The faction leader leverages personal aggression for short-term control, but the board holds structural power to enforce boundaries. However, the non-transparent removal introduces vulnerability, as it can be spun as manipulative, perpetuating a cycle where both sides feel victimized.
Steps to End the Factionalism
Resolving this requires reaffirming libertarian principles—voluntary association, NAP, and transparency—while addressing root causes like ego-driven control. Focus on rebuilding trust through inclusive, bottom-up processes rather than top-down edicts. Here’s a phased approach:
- Reaffirm Core Principles Publicly and Internally
Issue a clear statement (e.g., via newsletter or meeting) restating the big tent: Commitment to individualism, self-ownership, and NAP, explicitly rejecting culture war injections as distractions. Emphasize that behaviors violating NAP (e.g., slurs, aggression) are incompatible, framing the removal as a defense of these values, not partisanship. This detoxifies the narrative, showing the organization isn’t “picking sides” but upholding fundamentals. - Enhance Transparency and Governance
Review and publicize board processes to prevent future opacity perceptions. Adopt clear conduct codes (e.g., no slurs, respect for personal boundaries) enforced via open votes or mediation. Use tools like anonymous feedback or third-party facilitators for disputes. In libertarian spirit, make membership voluntary and exit easy, but document removals with evidence to counter “victim” narratives. - Facilitate Dialogue and Mediation
Organize neutral forums (e.g., town halls or online discussions) where factions air grievances without aggression. Invite a mediator experienced in ideological groups to guide conversations toward shared goals. Encourage the faction leader’s supporters to form a separate group if irreconcilable, invoking the right of association—libertarians can “fork” like open-source projects, reducing internal strife. - Promote Inclusive Leadership and Culture
Diversify board/leadership to balance perspectives (e.g., include women, LGBTQ members, parents/non-parents) and model respectful discourse. Train on emotional intelligence to counter bullying—highlight that true power comes from influence, not dominance. Critique provocative slogans or tactics (e.g., “become insufferable”) as counterproductive to community building, potentially introduced to provoke division. - Monitor and Mitigate External Influences
Watch for agent provocateur patterns: Is the faction leader’s behavior amplified by external culture wars (e.g., online echo chambers)? Limit public escalations by focusing internally. If needed, seek legal advice for harassment (e.g., propositions, physical aggression) to protect members without over-relying on state intervention. - Measure Progress and Adapt
Track metrics like membership retention, event attendance, or sentiment surveys. If factionalism persists, consider restructuring (e.g., decentralized chapters) to make the organization more antifragile.
This approach shifts from control (e.g., removals, attacks) to empowered collaboration, aligning with libertarian ideals. It won’t please everyone—some may leave—but it preserves the big tent for those committed to the core values of the movement: INDIVIDUALISM that transcends tribalism.
Today, I got "ma'amed" by a punk in a Dresden tee, and other stories from up North… https://t.co/1SH0gKqoQm
— Carla Gericke, Live Free And Thrive! (@CarlaGericke) September 27, 2025
In the weeds at In the Woods in Groveton… AKA Carla & Louis do the North Country 🙂 https://t.co/nsNjwkoOf5
— Carla Gericke, Live Free And Thrive! (@CarlaGericke) September 26, 2025
Wise words from my rainy back porch… MLX Day 267… https://t.co/lG3liHtLsT
— Carla Gericke, Live Free And Thrive! (@CarlaGericke) September 25, 2025
“Addiction to outrage” is real—and fixable. Here’s a tight, cross-disciplinary map of what drives it and a practical remediation plan you can actually run.
What’s driving the outrage loop
Neuroscience
- Variable rewards: Outrage posts trigger intermittent dopamine hits (likes/retweets/comments), the same reinforcement schedule that makes slots addictive.
- Threat detection: The amygdala prioritizes negative, identity-relevant info; cortisol + adrenaline sharpen attention but narrow reasoning.
Cognitive psychology
- Cognitive ease & shortcuts: We prefer quick moral judgments over slow analysis (System 1 vs. System 2).
- Confirmation & outrage asymmetry: Novel threats feel more diagnostic than novel reassurances; we overweight moral violations.
Moral psychology / sociology
- Coalition signaling: Public anger signals loyalty to the in-group (“I’m one of us”), which is socially rewarding.
- Status economy: Moral grandstanding converts emotion into status; more heat = more claps.
Media economics & platform design
- Engagement incentives: Outrage increases time-on-site and ad impressions; ranking algorithms learn to serve more of what keeps you scrolling.
- Virality mechanics: Framing + simplicity + moral charge = shareability; complex nuance dies in the feed.
Political science & conflict studies
- Negative partisanship: People are mobilized more by hating the out-group than by loving their own.
- Elite cueing: Influencers/politicians profit from outrage as mobilization & fundraising tech.
Evolutionary & cultural angles
- Ancestral scarcity of information made threats worth overreacting to; today’s abundance plus amplification creates chronic overreaction.
- Rituals once “burned off” communal tensions; modern life dissolved shared rituals without replacing them.
Is this era unique?
- Outrage isn’t new; the speed, scale, and precision targeting are. Digital platforms weaponize ancient circuitry in real time, at global scale, with optimization loops that learn your personal triggers. That combo is historically novel.
A remediation plan (multi-level, actionable)
Level 1: You (individual protocols)
- Outrage Audit (7 days): Track triggers, time spent, bodily sensations, and aftermath. Label “fact / inference / story I’m telling.”
- Delay Rule: No public reaction for 20 minutes (micro) and 24 hours (macro/news). Most hot takes expire within a day.
- Friction by default: Remove social apps from the phone; use desktop only. Turn off push notifications. Set feeds to “most recent,” not “top.”
- Two-Source Standard: Before sharing, read two ideologically distinct sources; write a 2-sentence neutral summary.
- Steelman & Switch: Post one steelman of the opposing view weekly. Track how often you can switch positions given new evidence.
- Physiology first: Daily 10–15 min breathwork/walk after triggering content. Bring arousal down before deciding what it “means.”
- Boundaries as hygiene: Define an “outrage budget” (e.g., 15 min/day); use a timer. When it’s up, you’re out.
- Narrative practice: Ask: “What would be a boring, non-villain explanation?” (base rates, error, incentives, miscommunication).
- Moral vocabulary expansion: Replace “they’re evil” with precise claims: harmful, negligent, perverse incentives, unintended effects.
- Sabbath from feeds: One full day/week with zero social input. Schedule real-world time with actual humans.
Level 2: Dyads & small groups
- Disagreement contracts: Before hot topics, agree on aims (truth, understanding, policy), time limits, and “summarize-the-other” checkpoints.
- Mercy Mechanism: One “redo” per conversation—anyone can say, “Let me restate that without heat.”
- Role rotation: In meetings, assign a “steelman” and a “risk mapper” to keep heat from crowding out complexity.
Level 3: Community & orgs
- Norms charter: Publish norms: good-faith, cite-before-claim, no doxxing, no ad-hominem; enforce consistently (speech free, association voluntary).
- Cooling lanes: If a thread spikes, auto-shift to slower modes (moderated Q&A, written statements, office hours).
- Ritualize repair: Post-conflict debriefs (“what we learned,” “what we’d change”) within 72 hours.
- Leader modeling: Leaders demonstrate delay rules, corrections, and public mea culpas. Incentivize accuracy and updates, not just volume.
Level 4: Platforms & product (for builders / admins)
- Friction UX: One-click “read more before share,” delay send on charged keywords, optional 30-sec preview before a post goes live.
- Ranking tweaks: Down-weight rage-reactions as quality signals; up-weight civility metrics (source diversity, quote-tweet with summary).
- Context tiles: Auto-attach timelines, primary docs, and competing claims to viral posts.
- User controls: Per-user sliders for “novelty,” “negativity,” and “conflict density.”
Level 5: Culture & education
- Media literacy 2.0: Teach incentive analysis: “Who benefits if I’m angry?” Make it a habit like nutrition labels.
- Ritual & play: Build recurring in-person rituals (debate nights, maker days, potlucks). Shared labor ≠ shared enemies.
- Status re-pricing: Celebrate “least corrected errors this quarter,” “best steelman,” “fastest public correction.”
A 30-day reset (simple, measurable)
Week 1 — Measure & Remove
- Outrage Audit; remove apps from phone; turn off notifications; 15-min budget.
- Metric: total minutes, # of shares, resting HR variability after exposure (if you track).
Week 2 — Replace & Reframe
- Two-Source Standard; daily 10-minute walk after triggers; one steelman post.
- Metric: # of delayed posts; # of steelmans; reported stress 1–10.
Week 3 — Reconnect
- One disagreement contract conversation; attend/create one offline ritual.
- Metric: # of in-person hours vs. doomscrolling minutes.
Week 4 — Reprice Status
- Publicly correct one prior claim; praise a good-faith opponent; share a “what I changed my mind about.”
- Metric: # of corrections; engagement quality (comments with evidence vs. dunking).
Quick tools you can start using today
- The 3Qs: What happened? How do I know? What else could explain it?
- HALT check: Don’t post if Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired.
- OODA for info: Observe (collect), Orient (context & incentives), Decide (post or not), Act (with humility).
- Red Team Prompt: “If I were wrong, the first sign would be ___.”
- Outrage to Action: Convert heat into a concrete, pro-social task within 24 hours (donate, volunteer, write policy, build).
Is this compatible with free speech?
Yes. Free speech means the state can’t punish expression. It does not obligate others to platform, hire, or associate. Healthy communities pair speech freedom with association freedom and clearly stated norms—with consistent enforcement.
Quick check-in from an undisclosed parking lot… https://t.co/ntFC53fCS7
— Carla Gericke, Live Free And Thrive! (@CarlaGericke) September 23, 2025























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