Today’s 420 Ramble includes a lot of information about how to regulate your Central Nervous System. If you find yourself flying off the handle, find yourself repeating patterns of behavior over and over, find yourself in beefs because you are intoxicated, this one is for you!
MLX
Heading home late after seeing Kraftwerk with some friends in Boston. Barely squeaked in for the day, but I hacked it! 🙂
Day 70 of My Living Xperiment: Kraftwerk was Boing, Boom, Chak. Views of the Autobahn on the drive home. https://t.co/bHdsXBpkRA
— Carla Gericke, Live Free And Thrive! (@CarlaGericke) March 12, 2025
For some reason, this X Live is showing up as a link instead of having the video embedded. I’ll need to look into why that is, but in the meantime, here is Sunday’s “Series of Self” with today’s word “Self-awareness.” Towards the end, I merge my discussion with what is needed for a genuine apology: the self-awareness of what you did wrong. Without that, an apology is just an empty promise that will result in the same behavior in the future.
Day 68 of My Living Xperiment: It's Sunday, so let's jump into "The Series of Self." Today's topic… self-awareness! Who has it? Who needs it? Where can we get more? https://t.co/scn5q5KouE
— Carla Gericke, Live Free And Thrive! (@CarlaGericke) March 9, 2025
Day 67 of My Living Xperiment: Friday 420 Ramble… buckle the f-up! https://t.co/iZvXYIQiLW
— Carla Gericke, Live Free And Thrive! (@CarlaGericke) March 7, 2025
Day 64 of My Living Xperiment: NHLP Convention 9AM this Saturday at the Legion on Maple and Valley in Manchester. What does the future hold? https://t.co/RGHmJHlcvM
— Carla Gericke, Live Free And Thrive! (@CarlaGericke) March 5, 2025
Day 62 of My Living Xperiment: Mood… meh. Tricks to help… https://t.co/2K4YyrbfKM
— Carla Gericke, Live Free And Thrive! (@CarlaGericke) March 3, 2025
Day 61 of My Living Xperiment: It's Sunday, so join me for the "Self Series." Today's word: SELF-DETERMINATION. https://t.co/RdY4kuVGJI
— Carla Gericke, Live Free And Thrive! (@CarlaGericke) March 2, 2025
Great topic! Self-determination is at the core of both personal empowerment and political sovereignty. Let’s break it down.
Individual Self-Determination
At its most fundamental level, self-determination is about agency—the ability to make choices that shape your own destiny. It’s the foundation of self-ownership, autonomy, and personal responsibility. When you take control of your own mind, body, and soul (to borrow from The Good Girl’s Guide to Self-Ownership structure), you stop outsourcing decisions about your life to others—whether that’s societal expectations, government mandates, or even subconscious fears.
Key Aspects of Individual Self-Determination:
- Autonomy: Making choices based on your own values rather than external coercion.
- Self-Ownership: The idea that you are in charge of your body, mind, and labor.
- Accountability: Understanding that with freedom comes responsibility for outcomes.
- Resilience: The ability to adapt and overcome challenges, rather than waiting for external saviors.
- Mindset & Identity: Recognizing that you are the sovereign of your own existence.
A self-determined individual asks: What do I want? How do I build the skills, habits, and mindset to get there? How do I remove dependencies that make me weak?
This is why concepts like financial independence, health sovereignty, and intellectual self-defense (questioning narratives) are so crucial. They all contribute to an individual’s ability to make free, informed choices.
Political & State Self-Determination
Zooming out, self-determination applies to nations, communities, and political entities. The right of a people to determine their own political status and govern themselves is an ancient and revolutionary idea. It’s the backbone of revolutions, secessions, and movements for sovereignty.
Key Aspects of State-Level Self-Determination:
- Decentralization: Smaller, more accountable governance structures are better at reflecting the will of the people.
- Independence Movements: From the American Revolution to Brexit to NHExit, self-determination movements arise when people feel disconnected from or oppressed by a ruling body.
- Cultural Identity & Governance: A group of people should have the ability to organize their governance in a way that reflects their values and way of life.
- Consent of the Governed: If a government no longer serves the people’s interests, they should have the right to alter or abolish it.
A self-determined state asks: Do our people want to be governed by this system? Is the current structure serving us, or do we need to change it? Who benefits from our subservience?
This is why New Hampshire’s Live Free or Die ethos, and the NHExit movement, resonate deeply with ideas of self-determination. The same logic that applies to an individual—removing dependencies, asserting autonomy, taking control of one’s future—applies to a state. Just as a person must decide whether to remain in a toxic relationship or oppressive job, a state must decide whether it remains shackled to a system that no longer serves it.
The Parallels Between Individual & State-Level Self-Determination
- Sovereignty → Just as you are the sovereign of your life, a state should have sovereignty over its governance.
- Accountability → Just as you must take responsibility for your choices, a community must own the outcomes of its policies.
- Freedom of Association → Just as individuals should have the right to leave toxic relationships, states should have the right to exit oppressive unions.
- Personal Responsibility & Localism → The less dependent you are on a centralized authority, the more power you have over your future.
Ultimately, both forms of self-determination reject the idea of being ruled by unaccountable forces—whether that’s an overreaching government or a toxic belief system that keeps you in a mental prison.
What aspect of self-determination do you want to explore further? Individual strategies? NHExit? Global self-determination movements?
Day 60 of My Living Xperiment: My "Friday 420 Ramble" a day late at 2:40pm… Expect a recap of February, possibly the worst month of my life, and, is time travel real? Depends what you think! Strap in for today's MLX! https://t.co/7rnoexZc5N
— Carla Gericke, Live Free And Thrive! (@CarlaGericke) March 1, 2025
Day 59 of My Living Xperiment: Thanks to the @FreeStateNH community for the bereavement flowers. No "Friday 420 Ramble" today, so here is a close-up of a tulip. https://t.co/maiIDNRPIB
— Carla Gericke, Live Free And Thrive! (@CarlaGericke) February 28, 2025